Venting.

So I am going to start out by saying that this is probably going to be long. Also if you were looking for something cheerful and happy to read, this isn't it. 

So, my mom and my dad had me when my mom was 19 and my dad was 21. They weren't married and after I was born my dad had nothing to do with me. When I was 3 my dad decided that he wanted to be in my life so my mom gave him another chance. When I was 4 my mom and dad got married and my brother Landon was born a year later when I was 5. When I was 6 my mom gave birth to my brother Larryn. That same year my mom and dad got a divorce. (My dad drank a lot and after many warnings my mom left him.)

My mom got with my step-dad Eddie when Larryn was 6 months old, they have been together ever since. Out of their 13 going on 14 years of being together they have went on to have my brother Colten and my 2 little sisters Masyn and Cadyn. Eddie pretty much raised us a a second dad. We saw my dad every other weekend and then for the past 3 years Landon and Larryn would spend the summer with him.

Anyway, my dad works third shift and a few times a week whenever he would get home from work he would call my mom and they would talk about us 3 kids. They would talk about how we were doing in school and stuff like that. They pretty much got along for us. They would argue, sure, but for the most part they talked when it was necessary for us kids and that was that.

Well, last year my dad got a girlfriend. It was his first and only girlfriend since him and my mom had broke up 12 years before. We'll just call her V. So anyway V has 2 kids, a daughter and a son. Eventually (like 6 months after they started dating) V got laid off and decided to move in with my father. Fine, whatever he's a grown man. Well, V goes to school for nursing and never got another job after she moved in with my dad. She gets unemployment, but I know for a fact she only gets like 150 dollars a week and she has a huge shopping problem, no joke every time we would go over there she would show me all this crap she bought for her grandson (who is 6 months younger than Kayelynn.) So I know that she isn't helping my dad with any bills. There's now way since I can see her facebook and I see that she is going out to Applebee's almost every night and buying 90 dollar toys for her grandson.

Whenever my brothers go over there she acts like their mom. It seriously pisses me off. Landon and Larryn are going to be 15 and 14 in a month. They play X-box... A LOT. Just like any other normal teenager in the world.. I would seriously think they had something wrong with them if they didn't. Brian is 21 and he plays Halo all the time. Anyway she told them that they weren't allowed playing X-Box or being on the computer when they came over they had to go outside and play.... Like really. Like I said before my dad works 3rd shift so he is asleep during the day... So what is it going to hurt if they play xbox. Also they have to eat what she makes for dinner. Whether they like what she made or not... Hello, FTW Lady. I can understand if she was like okay guys what do you want for dinner and then she made that and they didn't want it.. But my god. If you pop in a pizza and they would rather make a sandwich... What is it hurting?

We went over there for Christmas and I guess she did all the Christmas shopping. I DO NOT WANT TO SOUND UNGRATEFUL. But my dad has always just given us money... I was looking forward to that. But she did the shopping and we got a bunch of stuff that is kinda just thrown throughout the house not being used. Then she got Kayelynn 2 things... And got her grandson like a million. Keep in mind that this was supposed to be from her and my dad both. If she is going to make it from both of them she should get the babies the same amount of stuff. Plain and simple. Again, I do not want to sound ungrateful but it pisses me off seeing that her grandson got seriously 30 things to open from her and MY DAD and then my daughter gets 2 things. (And seriously she got her baby toys... Like 0+ months toys that you hang on the babies carseat.... Kayelynn doesn't even have one of those carseats anymore.)

So ever since her and my dad got together my dad has been a total ass to my mom. If he goes to get my brothers and sees her he gives her a nasty look. Everyone knows it's all because of his girlfriend... Because before they got together my mom and dad could see each other and wave and go on with their day. I told my dad when Kayelynn was 5 months old that I was not having to different parties for her and if he was going to act like a jerk towards my mom and step dad all because of V then I didn't want either of them coming.. He said okay.

I wrote V and had her ask my dad if he was planning on coming to Kayelynn's party. She wrote back and said that my dad has been working extra hours on Fridays to make extra money to pay bills and that he would be sleeping but her and her daughter would stop by... EXCUSE ME.. You're out shopping everyday and going out to dinner with friends spending money... Yet my father has to work extra hours so you'll have money for bills?? I was pissed off to say the least. So I told my mom what V had said. (I forgot to mention that about 3 months ago my dad informed me that he was not coming to Kayelynn's party if my mom was there.) My mom and I were both pissed that my dad was not going to attend his only granddaughter's first birthday party for the sole reason that my mom would be there... Yea he had to work Friday, but the party was on a Saturday. He could give up a few hours of sleep.


Fast forward to about 9 days ago. I was posting on Facebook about Kayelynn's party on Brian's page and my page that I was having Kayelynn's party on the 5th of March and I needed to know who all was coming so that I could decide where I was having it. If a bunch of people wanted to come I wasn't going to have it at my house just in case it was freezing and we were all stuck inside. Well eventually I said on there that I was thinking of downgrading to a few people and having a small party. V commented and said I should do the Facebook invite thing that sends an invite to all of your friends... I obviously didn't want to do that, I don't believe in inviting people who have only seen my daughter once on her life just for a gift.

My mom posted on my status about my dad being immature. That's all she said is that he was immature for not going because she was going to be there. When I got home my mom and V were going at each other. I was like holy shit! So I read what they were writing and I couldn't help myself. I'm sorry, I don't care who you are. If you cuss my mom out (ON MY PAGE) and say that you and my father def. aren't coming to my daughter's party (Like it was her decision and my dad had no say whatsoever like I knew was the case) I am going to give you a piece of my mind.. That is exactly what I did. I told her exactly what I thought about her. I told her I thought she was a gold digger a bunch of other stuff.

That night her daughter was posting all this shit on her page about me.


Back story on her daughter. H, we'll call her, is 8 months younger than me. She has son that was mentioned above. She live in government housing and pays 33 dollars a month for rent. V gave her her old car (Because my dad gave her one of his.) She is one of those girls who is bigger, nothing wrong with that, but because she is on the bigger side she also has bigger boobs and her FB and Myspace are filled with slutty pictures of her boobs hanging out and stuff. I just never really cared for her because I also knew that before her son was born she was into drugs and stuff. Just not the type of person I normally associate with.

I posted a status on FB that said I was happy to have a beautiful daughter who was off the bottle at 8 months and was super smart, how I was happy to have an amazing fiancee and 2 amazing step kids, stuff like that to try to cheer myself up from the fighting. 20 minutes later her daughter starts posting statuses like "Oh I'm so happy to actually work and have money for my child and I'm happy to be in a relationship with someone I actually like. And I'm so happy that I don't have to depend on others for what I have.. That way I wont lose everything" Yada yada. I know she was talking about me. I was so mad. I started updating my status to say stuff like "I'm so happy that I don't live in government housing and that I don't have to depend on the government to eat. I don't have bugs in my house. I'm happy that my wonderful fiancee bought me a car and it wasn't just given to me because I'm to lousy to get my own."


My dad called me the next day and was trying to tell me that I didn't have anything. That my car was a piece of shit. That I couldn't pay my bills. That before we moved out of the townhouse that we had bugs and pretty much saying everything to me that I had told H... Pretty much defending her. I was beyond irate. After 3 hours of arguing he told me I no longer have a da and Kayelynn doesn't have a Grandpa.


All of this because I wanted to have 1 party for my daughter. Really. All because V had to go and stick her nose in to mine and my mom's conversation and start trouble.


I could not imagine Seth and Paige having kids, and having to throw 2 different parties because their mom and dad aren't together. It wouldn't happen. We would put our differences aside for our Grandkids birthday. I don't understand why they had to make me feel like shit all because I wanted 1 party for Kayelynn. Not a life where not only do we have to go to my mom's side and dad's side separately for holidays, but also her birthday. I just don't see, honestly why he couldn't deal with it for an hour for her birthday. An hour.